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- When someone is critically ill, says comedy writer Jeannie Gaffigan, they need three very simple things from their friends and family: compassion, humor, and touch.
- We are conditioned to enter hospital rooms meekly and speak in soft whispers, but when Gaffigan was in critical condition after emergency brain surgery, unable to speak, the most healing thing was her friend visiting her and making irreverent jokes, and her sister tuning into her unspoken feelings.
- “I’m not saying dress up like a clown,” she says. “You’ve got to be appropriate, but people think it’s inappropriate to be funny around critically ill people. But people want to be talked to, be listened to, even if they can’t talk.”