“Helicopter parenting, and all of its associated forms, prevents children from exploring their emotional and intellectual landscape, and often their physical landscape as well, such that they become adults in body only,” says evolutionary biologist Heather Heying.
Childhood is an important developmental stage that trains kids for messy, uncontrollable reality. If adults don’t teach kids how to solve their own problems, or if they prevent them from experiencing harm, children become less capable adults who don’t know how to deal with real injury and insult.
Parents can help their children by teaching them to be anti-fragile. Children grow from being exposed to ideas with which they disagree, encountering negative emotions, and engaging in activities with real-world outcomes like sport, cooking, and DIY.