Forgiveness as a cultural act linked to religion and philosophy dates back centuries, but studies focused on the science of apologies, morality, and relationships are fairly new. As Amrisha Vaish explains, causing harm, showing remorse, and feeling concern for others are things children pay attention to, even in their first year of life.
In a series of experiments, adults ripped children’s artworks and either showed remorse or showed neutrality. They found that remorse really mattered. “Here we see what [the kids] really care about is that the transgressor shows their commitment to them, to the relationship,” Vaish says. “And they will seek that person out over even an in-group member.”
As a highly social species, cooperation is vital to humans. Learning what factors make or break those social bonds can help communities, teams, and partners work together to meet challenges and survive.